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Dreams Of Surrender

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Description

BDSM Dynamic Mod

This mod is intended to add another gameplay layer to Sims 4. It not only adds new interactions, skills, traits… but also integrates my old BDSM objects so that you can use them for both play & training. The integration is an ongoing process, so check out the objects section of this article to see if your favorite object is already integrated.

This mod is an evolution of SOS (Subs on-demand service), Caligula Integration Module (SOS expansion) and Augustus Training Module (SOS expansion)- all of them are integrated into it, meaning you dont need to download them separately anymore (and cant download them separately anymore either.)

Dont forget to purchase the “SOS Business Card” for your sims to be able to access all of the features of this mod. Find it in the BUY mode, search for “SOS” and it should pop right up.

Requirements

https://wickedwhimsmod.com/download

Discreet Frame (i)

"Atropos" Brainwashing Machine (i)

Dungeon Clutter Set & Dungeon Clutter Set 3 for buttplugs.

Ideally you want all of the integrated objects. Otherwise you might see options in several places (like the BDSM artisan crafting menu) that will fail to produce anything.

Compatible Objects-

All compatible objects are marked with “(i)” at the end of their name, so that you can differentiate objects that directly interact with this mod. All of my objects available for download on Wicked.cc are compatible. All of the objects in my dropbox situated in the “integrated_packages” folder are compatible. Incompatible objects can still be used, but wont directly interact with the DoS mechanics.

Compatible Pairings

This mod is designed for Male (dominant) & Female (submissive) with a secondary focus on Female (dominant) & Female (submissive). Other pairings will still work, but the animations and other minor things might be a little off at times.

Dominance / submission

Dominance Skill - Main measure of your Dominant abilities. Leveling up the skill gives you potential points and makes you more likely to succeed at training interactions.

Obtaining Dominance Skill - Initially the skill is tied to obtaining the “Certified Dominant” trait, which you can purchase from the SOS business card for 1000 simbucks.

Submission Skill - Main measure of your submissive training. Leveling up the skill gives you potential points, enabled Service interactions once you reach level 5.

Obtaining Submission Skill - Submission skill is automatically acquired when your sim receives the “Owned” trait.

Developing BDSM potential

Potential Points - Every time your Dom/sub levels up, they receive potential point(s) that you can spend on unlocking new active and passive abilities and interactions. Dominants can read their “Zen Of Bondage” book to develop, subs develop directly through the training category interaction.

If you are using older saves you might want to shift left click on the sim with cheats turned on, DoS Debug category, “Cheat: Award 5 Unlocks”. The unlock total for level 10 Dominants right now is 26. Submissives get 16 points as the points dont get rewarded retroactively.

How To Obtain A sub

Attending Contract Auction - The world is full of sims eager to get into the lifestyle. You can purchase their contract in an auction started from the new object- “Contract Auction Podium”.

Convincing Sim To Become A sub - If your relationship with any given eligible sim is high enough, you can convince them to become a sub with the “Offer sub Contract” master interaction. At first, this requires a fairly intimate relationship to be available, but if you raise your Charisma skill, you might find even acquaintances willing to submit. You need at least Dominance skill level 3 for this to be available.

Setting Up An Auction

First you will need to place the “Contract Auction Podium” object somewhere in the world- I would recommend a public lot with a lot of traffic, but no celebrities. Next step is setting up the auction pool to choose from- This is done through the “SOS business card” object with a new picker. After you have at least one sim tagged as eligible for the auction, the option to purchase their contract will become available directly on the podium.

Contract Modification

While you initially cannot modify contracts purchased through an auction, you can add or remove contract clauses when convincing a sim to sign a sub contract with you. Currently you can add up to three clauses (at Dominance level 3/6/9) that either modify the training in some way, modify the behavior of the sub or give out special abilities.

You can unlock the ability to modify contracts by developing your Dominant potential.

Current Clauses Are-

Collars And You

You can use both supported and unsupported collars on your subs. New supported collars are easily recognized by the (i) in the collar CAS icon, however any relevant piece of clothing from the compatible clothing should work- these include my older clothing such as the armbinder, straitjacket etc.

If you wish to use a collar that is currently not officially supported, or perhaps roleplay some other piece of clothing serving as one (such as a bracelet), you need to equip the “Collar Logic” CAS item (ring- index finger L) together with the desired item.

Relationship Awareness

The game tracks your D/s relationship and adds relationship between the Dominant and their submissives.

Made To Serve

Owned submissives now possess the “Service” motive instead of “Social” motive. Make sure to make them interact with their Dominants on a regular basis, otherwise they will get very sad from being neglected.

Refilling Service can be done in many ways, from dedicated Service interactions, training or even having sex with their Dominant.

sub Hierarchy - Designate Favorite

Favorites get confident instead of happy from their collars. Your favorite can help with some basic training interactions (inspection, etiquette, order to masturbate) and also by locking in and letting out other subs from lock-ins. Favorite uses the sub skill where Dom check is originally required, but failure does not make either participants guilty.

Interaction Special Quality

Some interactions will have a colored stripe on the left side of the pie menu option. This means that these interactions train one of the related special qualities in your sub, or in case of Service interactions, are primarily meant to serve the Dominant and refill the sub Service motive. Right now these are-

Finishing training in any of the categories (except Service) rewards you with a trait that might give you access to more interactions, modify the behavior of the sim and increase the sale price.

Failure And Punishment

Any time your sub fails an interaction, they enter a new mood- Punishment Due. This mood blocks all other moods and the sim stays guilty for 24 hours since last failure. Also severely reduces sub training gain. You can either use a lock-in interaction to remove the mood or one of the new punishment interactions that remove the debuff. After the punishment is removed, the sub receives a large bonus to the sub skill and a debuff for suffering through it.

For a convenient way to punish a guilty sub, why not equip them with my Shock Collar? It allows you to punish guilty subs quickly.

Guilty Conscience

Sims that are now Punishment Due will slowly lose their sub skill when unpunished. While this isnt as dangerous on higher levels, be careful with letting your subs disobey when they are less experienced. You can minimize the danger by not training novice subs with high level Dom interactions. Or getting Dominance to level 10, as you cant fail interactions then.

Rules Of Conduct

You can set up specific rules for your subs to follow. These modify their autonomy behavior.

Rule Breaking

Untrained subs (level 1-4) will now periodically have a chance to break rules. This can only occur when their Dom is not aware of the sub and the chance is increased the lower the sub skill level is. If you have no rules active, you can still get a generic rule break, however active rules have specific rule breaking interactions.

sub Sharing

While normally subs can only play with the Dominants they signed contract with, you can now lift this restriction and allow other Dominants to join in on the fun.

Social Interactions

Both Doms and subs receive number of social interactions while they increase their respective skills. These very slowly train the skill further and work as a regular chat interactions you can use to roleplay. Find all of them in the “Friendly” category.

Portables

Suitable BDSM objects can be added to your sim´s inventory, so that you can take these with you to different lots or on a vacation. In other words, you can play around without having to edit the lot and adding separate BDSM objects.

SOS Shop

New option to browse the SOS shop on the SOS business card. You can purchase all usable and inventoryable integrated items in there.

BDSM crafting

You can use the woodworking bench and your handiness skill to create all sorts of bondage objects that you can either sell or keep (and save money on building your dream dungeon). Dont forget to purchase the “Artisan Certification” from the SOS business card to be able to access the recipes.

Working Butt Plugs

Integrated buttplugs purchasable in the SOS shop can be worn. They take up the Left Bracelet slot. Give out a flirty buff while worn, train sexpertise slowly while walking around. Controlled through the inventory item. You can put them in, take them out and toggle the visuals if they are clipping clothing. The buttplugs are visible by default and applied to all outfits. Positioned for the V9/V6/Maxis female bodyshape and the male Maxis bodyshape.

Working Gags

Three gag types that your subs can wear- ballgag, bitgag & ringgag. Clothing items controlled throught the “Box Of Gags” inventory item. Allows your Dom to put on or remove gags from subs. The gags should restrict certain interactions like eating or speaking. My DoS interactions shoud dynamically remove the gags when necessary and put them back on when done. Wearing any of the gags slowly trains submission and gives out a flirty buff.

Chastity

Comes with a chastity system that allows you to put your subs into chastity belts (females) or cock cages (males). Tracks arousal, gives you control over your subs release, trains submission.

Saying Goodbye - Contract Sale

SOS will only buy back sims with at least level 5 Submission skill, which qualifies them as a fully trained sub. The Submission skill is the main measure of the contract price, but it takes into consideration number of traits, skills and sim characteristics.

If you wish to say goodbye to any of your subs, you can initiate the contract sale by bringing the sub to the “Contract Auction Podium” object and using the relevant interaction.

Fully trained sub contracts can fetch over 20 000 simbucks, making being a trainer a viable career choice.

If you simply wish to void the contract and end the relationship, you can do so as a Dominant of any level.

Autonomy And You

Voluntary Autonomy - Qualifiying interactions should properly advertise fun to the sims picking out autonomous interactions. The likelyhood of picking a voluntary interaction is multiplied when sims are flirty. As with user directed interactions, the subs still have to meet all the criteria (like sub level for example).

Training Autonomy - Dominants will seek out their subs with low Service when either bored and in need of social. Currently works with social training interactions.

Autonomy For “Beds” - Integrated objects (slave cages, sleeping bondage bag) now contain their assigned subs on lot load from travelling. Use “Assign Bed” on the object to use this feature.

Wanted: Alive Or Dead

Wants - Doms and subs have trait specific whim sets. Both submisives and Dominants have their own whims that reward lifetime reward points. The whims are anything from be locked into a device, clean the house or become fully Dom confident. Right now there are about 30 whims that can appear.

Dominant For Hire Freelancer Career

Slightly bigger in scope than the basegame freelancer careers. 27 gigs split along three tiers. Tasks you will be required to do go from crafting BDSM objects, training your subs, taking your subs to rabbithole events etc. You should also have access to a computer as some gigs require interacting with it. You can become a Dominant For Hire directly on the SOS business card.

Where Did The Old Interactions Go?

For my advanced objects, the old interactions will be hidden (turned into cheats). You can access them by shift clicking the object in question and accessing the legacy pie category. These are no longer supported and provided as-is for people who dont want to engage with the training mechanic.

In cases where the old interactions no longer work for reasons such as game updates, these will be removed without any replacement.

Important Information For Smooth Operation

Turning off nudity reactions / privacy / sex reactions in the Wicked Whims settings is required. These reactions often break interaction chains.

There is an empty accessory item (ring- index finger L) that adds the necessary collar logic- equip it whenever you have an unsupported collar you want to be recognized on your sim.

If for some reason any of the object interactions get interrupted (going into CAS and back for example), the object might get stuck in the wrong state, making it unusable. There is a cheat interaction called “Debug State Reset” directly on the objects to fix this.

Translations

Right now there is an ongoing effort to make the mod more accessible to people who dont speak English very well. Translation files are overrides that belong in the “!Override” folder in your Sims 4 Mods folder. If you dont have a folder like that, create it first, then put the translation package into it. It doesnt matter if you have the Patreon or the Public version, the translation file works for both.

If the translation is not loading properly, try putting it in the same folder as the main mod file (DreamsOfSurrender package).

Currently available

Chinese (both Traditional and Simplified)

By Samuel María, currently maintained by Samuel María.

Japanese

By Kurzweil, currently maintained by Kurzweil.

German

By Jorak84, currently maintained by Jorak84.

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